How 'MoM' Movie Made Me Feel
We can never feel how it feels to be raped, to be so deeply humiliated that the soul shivers. Maybe if our (male) reproductive organ is chopped off or a rod is shoved up our asses, we will feel something close to that disgusting feeling.
Well, this is not exactly a review of the movie but the after-effects of the movie.
What this movie made me realize is that knowing is one thing, understanding is another, and feeling or experiencing is a completely different phenomenon. I don't know why we, as human beings, (mostly) can not feel the pain and suffering of another human being or put ourselves in their shoes unless or until we go through the same experience. That's the only way I guess.
I never even gave a thought about how it feels to be raped, much less feel it vicariously until I saw this movie.
Oh No! We can never feel how it feels to be raped, to be so deeply humiliated that the soul shivers. Maybe if our (male) reproductive organ is chopped off or a rod is shoved up our asses, we will feel something close to that disgusting feeling.
We can never ever feel that inhumane, monstrous feeling, when one starts to hate her own being, being a victim. And that disgusting feeling never ever leaves. It is so difficult to heal mentally and emotionally. One such act and that soul is damned for ages. I can tell because I have felt a similar feeling though my experience was different.
It's not like only girls are the victims. There are so many young boys that are victimized. A victim has no gender. A victim is a human being and after such a grotesque act, we have destroyed the being.
Believe me, the acid burns, scars, and bruises on the flesh don't hurt as much as the soul that we have destroyed, hurts. And if we try to search for the root cause of why this grotesque, evil act still persists in society, I guess it is because that the rapist's or criminal's mind is afflicted and polluted in the first place. The perpetrator's mind is equally victimized that he/she commits such an inhumane, heinous act on the victim.
And this is all because of how we were grown up. This society always tells us to repress what is so natural. Sex was meant to be a Sacred EXperience but we have degraded it to such an extent that it is almost a crime now.
I just pray to God, we start to evolve and start feeling another human, another being, be it an animal or a plant, without having to go through their experiences.
